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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 104 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  2. 2.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  3. 3.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or give your reason? (a) name the action (b) give your reason
  4. 4.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  5. 5.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) old fights (b) the other’s faults (c) your own feelings (d) the weather
  6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or name your feeling? (a) name the action (b) name your feeling
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  8. 8.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they win the fight (c) they hide feelings (d) they don’t attack
  9. 9.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  10. 10.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  11. 11.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) upset (c) sleepy (d) hungry
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say what you would like? (a) name the action (b) say what you would like
  14. 14.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  15. 15.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say when it happens? (a) name your feeling (b) say when it happens
  16. 16.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a loud sigh (b) a list of faults (c) what you would like (d) a threat
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  20. 20.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  21. 21.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name the action? (a) ask for a change (b) name the action
  23. 23.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  24. 24.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say how you feel? (a) name the action (b) say how you feel
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  29. 29.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  30. 30.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  31. 31.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  32. 32.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “I feel left out.” (b) “You’re so rude!” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “You never listen!”
  33. 33.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  34. 34.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  35. 35.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  36. 36.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  37. 37.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  38. 38.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  40. 40.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1

Answer key

  1. False
  2. step 3
  3. name the action
  4. True
  5. your own feelings
  6. name your feeling
  7. an “I” statement
  8. they don’t attack
  9. step 2
  10. step 1
  11. upset
  12. an “I” statement
  13. name the action
  14. True
  15. name your feeling
  16. what you would like
  17. a blaming “you” line
  18. an “I” statement
  19. a blaming “you” line
  20. False
  21. False
  22. name the action
  23. False
  24. False
  25. a blaming “you” line
  26. say how you feel
  27. say how you feel
  28. say when it happens
  29. an “I” statement
  30. True
  31. step 1
  32. “I feel left out.”
  33. True
  34. an “I” statement
  35. False
  36. a blaming “you” line
  37. a blaming “you” line
  38. a blaming “you” line
  39. give your reason
  40. step 4

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