I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 11 · 40 questions

Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

1. 1.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
2. 2.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) upset (b) happy (c) hungry (d) sleepy
3. 3.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You never listen!” (d) “You ignore me!”
4. 4.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
6. 6.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
7. 7.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name the action? (a) ask for a change (b) name the action
8. 8.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name the action? (a) say why it matters (b) name the action
9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
10. 10.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
11. 11.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
12. 12.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action
14. 14.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) a list of faults (c) what you would like (d) a loud sigh
15. 15.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say how you feel? (a) give your reason (b) say how you feel
16. 16.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name your feeling? (a) say what you would like (b) name your feeling
17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
18. 18.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
21. 21.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name your feeling? (a) give your reason (b) name your feeling
23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
25. 25.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the weather (b) the other’s faults (c) your own feelings (d) old fights
26. 26.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
28. 28.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they don’t attack (c) they win the fight (d) they hide feelings
29. 29.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
30. 30.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say when it happens? (a) name your feeling (b) say when it happens
33. 33.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
34. 34.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say how you feel? (a) say what you would like (b) say how you feel
36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
37. 37.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or ask for a change? (a) say when it happens (b) ask for a change
39. 39.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
40. 40.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement

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