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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 126 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  2. 2.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  3. 3.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  5. 5.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) sleepy (c) hungry (d) upset
  6. 6.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Too late.” (b) “You should be sorry!” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “Whatever.”
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  8. 8.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  9. 9.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a loud sigh (b) what you would like (c) a threat (d) a list of faults
  10. 10.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  11. 11.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  12. 12.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the other’s faults (b) the weather (c) old fights (d) your own feelings
  13. 13.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  15. 15.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters
  16. 16.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  17. 17.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  21. 21.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  23. 23.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  24. 24.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You ignore me!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You never listen!” (d) “You’re so rude!”
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  26. 26.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  28. 28.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or ask for a change? (a) say how you feel (b) ask for a change
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  31. 31.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  32. 32.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  33. 33.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name your feeling? (a) say why it matters (b) name your feeling
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
  39. 39.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  40. 40.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line

Answer key

  1. step 1
  2. an “I” statement
  3. True
  4. a blaming “you” line
  5. upset
  6. “Thanks for listening.”
  7. an “I” statement
  8. give your reason
  9. what you would like
  10. True
  11. step 3
  12. your own feelings
  13. True
  14. give your reason
  15. say how you feel
  16. step 4
  17. True
  18. a blaming “you” line
  19. a blaming “you” line
  20. a blaming “you” line
  21. a blaming “you” line
  22. say why it matters
  23. False
  24. “I feel left out.”
  25. say why it matters
  26. step 1
  27. a blaming “you” line
  28. step 3
  29. say how you feel
  30. an “I” statement
  31. False
  32. False
  33. False
  34. name your feeling
  35. say when it happens
  36. say why it matters
  37. give your reason
  38. say when it happens
  39. False
  40. an “I” statement

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