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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 138 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or name your feeling? (a) name the action (b) name your feeling
  2. 2.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  3. 3.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  4. 4.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  5. 5.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “You’re so rude!” (c) “I feel left out.” (d) “You ignore me!”
  6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  8. 8.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or give your reason? (a) say how you feel (b) give your reason
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say why it matters? (a) say when it happens (b) say why it matters
  10. 10.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  14. 14.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  15. 15.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or name the action? (a) say how you feel (b) name the action
  16. 16.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  17. 17.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  18. 18.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or name the action? (a) name your feeling (b) name the action
  19. 19.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  20. 20.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  21. 21.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  22. 22.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  23. 23.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  25. 25.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  26. 26.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) hungry (c) sleepy (d) upset
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  28. 28.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  29. 29.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  30. 30.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say how you feel? (a) give your reason (b) say how you feel
  32. 32.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  33. 33.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say what you would like? (a) say how you feel (b) say what you would like
  37. 37.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Too late.” (c) “Whatever.” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  38. 38.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action
  40. 40.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement

Answer key

  1. name your feeling
  2. an “I” statement
  3. step 4
  4. False
  5. “I feel left out.”
  6. say why it matters
  7. an “I” statement
  8. say how you feel
  9. say when it happens
  10. step 3
  11. a blaming “you” line
  12. a blaming “you” line
  13. an “I” statement
  14. step 4
  15. say how you feel
  16. False
  17. True
  18. name your feeling
  19. False
  20. False
  21. step 1
  22. an “I” statement
  23. True
  24. a blaming “you” line
  25. True
  26. upset
  27. an “I” statement
  28. False
  29. step 2
  30. step 3
  31. say how you feel
  32. False
  33. True
  34. give your reason
  35. a blaming “you” line
  36. say how you feel
  37. “Thanks for listening.”
  38. an “I” statement
  39. name the action
  40. a blaming “you” line

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