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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 14 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) sleepy (b) hungry (c) upset (d) happy
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name your feeling? (a) ask for a change (b) name your feeling
  3. 3.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  5. 5.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  6. 6.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  8. 8.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  9. 9.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  10. 10.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a list of faults (b) what you would like (c) a threat (d) a loud sigh
  11. 11.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  12. 12.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the weather (b) old fights (c) your own feelings (d) the other’s faults
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name your feeling? (a) say what you would like (b) name your feeling
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  15. 15.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  16. 16.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  19. 19.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “You’re so rude!”
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name your feeling? (a) say why it matters (b) name your feeling
  21. 21.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  22. 22.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  23. 23.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  24. 24.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say how you feel? (a) name the action (b) say how you feel
  26. 26.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say when it happens? (a) say what you would like (b) say when it happens
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  30. 30.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  31. 31.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  32. 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  33. 33.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  34. 34.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  35. 35.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Thanks for listening.” (c) “Whatever.” (d) “Too late.”
  36. 36.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say how you feel? (a) give your reason (b) say how you feel
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or ask for a change? (a) say how you feel (b) ask for a change

Answer key

  1. upset
  2. name your feeling
  3. step 3
  4. an “I” statement
  5. step 1
  6. a blaming “you” line
  7. an “I” statement
  8. True
  9. step 2
  10. what you would like
  11. False
  12. your own feelings
  13. name your feeling
  14. name the action
  15. False
  16. step 1
  17. say how you feel
  18. a blaming “you” line
  19. “I feel left out.”
  20. name your feeling
  21. True
  22. an “I” statement
  23. True
  24. step 4
  25. say how you feel
  26. a blaming “you” line
  27. say why it matters
  28. say when it happens
  29. say why it matters
  30. False
  31. step 3
  32. an “I” statement
  33. a blaming “you” line
  34. True
  35. “Thanks for listening.”
  36. step 4
  37. say when it happens
  38. say how you feel
  39. give your reason
  40. say how you feel

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