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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 152 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  2. 2.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  3. 3.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters
  4. 4.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  5. 5.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or name the action? (a) name your feeling (b) name the action
  6. 6.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  7. 7.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  8. 8.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
  9. 9.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the weather (b) your own feelings (c) old fights (d) the other’s faults
  10. 10.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  12. 12.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
  14. 14.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  15. 15.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a list of faults (b) a threat (c) a loud sigh (d) what you would like
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  19. 19.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  20. 20.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  21. 21.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  22. 22.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “I feel left out.” (b) “You ignore me!” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “You never listen!”
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  24. 24.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  25. 25.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  26. 26.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) hungry (c) upset (d) sleepy
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  28. 28.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  31. 31.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “Too late.”
  32. 32.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  33. 33.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  34. 34.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  35. 35.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  36. 36.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  37. 37.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say when it happens? (a) say how you feel (b) say when it happens
  39. 39.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  40. 40.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement

Answer key

  1. an “I” statement
  2. step 2
  3. say how you feel
  4. step 3
  5. name your feeling
  6. step 3
  7. False
  8. say when it happens
  9. your own feelings
  10. an “I” statement
  11. an “I” statement
  12. step 2
  13. say how you feel
  14. True
  15. what you would like
  16. a blaming “you” line
  17. say when it happens
  18. a blaming “you” line
  19. say why it matters
  20. False
  21. False
  22. “I feel left out.”
  23. say why it matters
  24. step 4
  25. True
  26. upset
  27. a blaming “you” line
  28. False
  29. give your reason
  30. a blaming “you” line
  31. “Thanks for listening.”
  32. step 1
  33. an “I” statement
  34. False
  35. True
  36. False
  37. step 1
  38. say how you feel
  39. False
  40. an “I” statement

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