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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 167 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  2. 2.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  3. 3.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  5. 5.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
  6. 6.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  7. 7.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name the action? (a) say why it matters (b) name the action
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  10. 10.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  12. 12.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name the action? (a) ask for a change (b) name the action
  15. 15.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they don’t attack (c) they hide feelings (d) they win the fight
  16. 16.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  17. 17.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  18. 18.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  21. 21.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  22. 22.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  23. 23.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) old fights (b) the weather (c) your own feelings (d) the other’s faults
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  25. 25.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  27. 27.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Thanks for listening.” (c) “Too late.” (d) “Whatever.”
  28. 28.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) sleepy (c) happy (d) upset
  29. 29.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  31. 31.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  32. 32.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) a loud sigh (c) what you would like (d) a list of faults
  33. 33.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  34. 34.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  35. 35.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  36. 36.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  37. 37.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  38. 38.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  39. 39.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  40. 40.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False

Answer key

  1. False
  2. an “I” statement
  3. True
  4. an “I” statement
  5. say how you feel
  6. True
  7. name the action
  8. a blaming “you” line
  9. give your reason
  10. True
  11. say why it matters
  12. step 4
  13. say how you feel
  14. name the action
  15. they don’t attack
  16. False
  17. True
  18. False
  19. step 3
  20. an “I” statement
  21. True
  22. False
  23. your own feelings
  24. a blaming “you” line
  25. step 3
  26. say why it matters
  27. “Thanks for listening.”
  28. upset
  29. True
  30. say when it happens
  31. step 1
  32. what you would like
  33. step 2
  34. an “I” statement
  35. True
  36. an “I” statement
  37. a blaming “you” line
  38. False
  39. False
  40. False

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