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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 19 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  3. 3.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or name the action? (a) say how you feel (b) name the action
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  5. 5.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name your feeling? (a) say why it matters (b) name your feeling
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  8. 8.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name your feeling? (a) give your reason (b) name your feeling
  9. 9.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  10. 10.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) your own feelings (b) old fights (c) the weather (d) the other’s faults
  11. 11.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Whatever.” (b) “Thanks for listening.” (c) “Too late.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say how you feel? (a) give your reason (b) say how you feel
  13. 13.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  14. 14.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  15. 15.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  16. 16.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  19. 19.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “I feel left out.” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “You’re so rude!”
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say why it matters? (a) name the action (b) say why it matters
  23. 23.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  24. 24.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  25. 25.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  26. 26.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) upset (c) happy (d) sleepy
  27. 27.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or name your feeling? (a) name the action (b) name your feeling
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  30. 30.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  32. 32.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  33. 33.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  34. 34.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  35. 35.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  36. 36.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  37. 37.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  39. 39.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  40. 40.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True

Answer key

  1. False
  2. say why it matters
  3. say how you feel
  4. a blaming “you” line
  5. step 1
  6. name your feeling
  7. an “I” statement
  8. name your feeling
  9. True
  10. your own feelings
  11. “Thanks for listening.”
  12. say how you feel
  13. True
  14. False
  15. give your reason
  16. False
  17. a blaming “you” line
  18. an “I” statement
  19. “I feel left out.”
  20. give your reason
  21. say when it happens
  22. name the action
  23. a blaming “you” line
  24. step 3
  25. False
  26. upset
  27. True
  28. name your feeling
  29. say why it matters
  30. step 4
  31. a blaming “you” line
  32. step 4
  33. a blaming “you” line
  34. True
  35. False
  36. an “I” statement
  37. a blaming “you” line
  38. name the action
  39. step 3
  40. True

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