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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 194 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  2. 2.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  3. 3.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say why it matters? (a) say when it happens (b) say why it matters
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  8. 8.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “You ignore me!”
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  10. 10.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) your own feelings (b) the other’s faults (c) the weather (d) old fights
  11. 11.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or name your feeling? (a) say when it happens (b) name your feeling
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  14. 14.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  15. 15.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  16. 16.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  17. 17.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  18. 18.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) happy (c) sleepy (d) upset
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  21. 21.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) what you would like (c) a list of faults (d) a loud sigh
  22. 22.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  23. 23.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  25. 25.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  26. 26.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  28. 28.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  29. 29.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say how you feel? (a) give your reason (b) say how you feel
  31. 31.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  32. 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or give your reason? (a) name your feeling (b) give your reason
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  37. 37.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  39. 39.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  40. 40.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False

Answer key

  1. a blaming “you” line
  2. step 1
  3. False
  4. say when it happens
  5. a blaming “you” line
  6. step 2
  7. a blaming “you” line
  8. “I feel left out.”
  9. a blaming “you” line
  10. your own feelings
  11. False
  12. name your feeling
  13. an “I” statement
  14. step 1
  15. say why it matters
  16. False
  17. step 3
  18. upset
  19. an “I” statement
  20. say why it matters
  21. what you would like
  22. step 4
  23. an “I” statement
  24. an “I” statement
  25. False
  26. an “I” statement
  27. a blaming “you” line
  28. True
  29. step 4
  30. say how you feel
  31. True
  32. an “I” statement
  33. name your feeling
  34. say how you feel
  35. say why it matters
  36. say why it matters
  37. False
  38. name the action
  39. True
  40. False

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