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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 202 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  2. 2.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  3. 3.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  5. 5.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  6. 6.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  8. 8.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  9. 9.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  10. 10.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  11. 11.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  12. 12.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a list of faults (b) what you would like (c) a threat (d) a loud sigh
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say how you feel? (a) give your reason (b) say how you feel
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say how you feel? (a) name the action (b) say how you feel
  15. 15.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “I feel left out.” (b) “You’re so rude!” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “You never listen!”
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  17. 17.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  20. 20.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  21. 21.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  22. 22.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  23. 23.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they don’t attack (c) they win the fight (d) they hide feelings
  24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or ask for a change? (a) say when it happens (b) ask for a change
  25. 25.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say when it happens? (a) say what you would like (b) say when it happens
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  29. 29.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  32. 32.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  34. 34.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or name your feeling? (a) say when it happens (b) name your feeling
  37. 37.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  38. 38.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name the action? (a) say why it matters (b) name the action

Answer key

  1. an “I” statement
  2. False
  3. True
  4. an “I” statement
  5. say how you feel
  6. False
  7. a blaming “you” line
  8. give your reason
  9. step 1
  10. False
  11. False
  12. what you would like
  13. say how you feel
  14. say how you feel
  15. “I feel left out.”
  16. an “I” statement
  17. True
  18. an “I” statement
  19. step 3
  20. False
  21. False
  22. a blaming “you” line
  23. they don’t attack
  24. say when it happens
  25. True
  26. say when it happens
  27. name the action
  28. a blaming “you” line
  29. step 2
  30. give your reason
  31. an “I” statement
  32. True
  33. say why it matters
  34. step 3
  35. a blaming “you” line
  36. name your feeling
  37. True
  38. step 1
  39. say why it matters
  40. name the action

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