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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 206 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  2. 2.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  3. 3.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  5. 5.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  6. 6.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a loud sigh (b) a threat (c) a list of faults (d) what you would like
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  8. 8.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  9. 9.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  10. 10.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say how you feel? (a) say what you would like (b) say how you feel
  12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name your feeling? (a) say what you would like (b) name your feeling
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say when it happens? (a) name your feeling (b) say when it happens
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  15. 15.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or name your feeling? (a) say when it happens (b) name your feeling
  16. 16.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they don’t attack (c) they win the fight (d) they hide feelings
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or give your reason? (a) name the action (b) give your reason
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  19. 19.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say when it happens? (a) say how you feel (b) say when it happens
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  22. 22.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the other’s faults (b) your own feelings (c) the weather (d) old fights
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name your feeling? (a) ask for a change (b) name your feeling
  27. 27.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  28. 28.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  30. 30.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  31. 31.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  32. 32.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  33. 33.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) upset (b) happy (c) hungry (d) sleepy
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  35. 35.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  36. 36.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  37. 37.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “You ignore me!” (c) “I feel left out.” (d) “You never listen!”
  38. 38.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  39. 39.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name the action? (a) say why it matters (b) name the action

Answer key

  1. a blaming “you” line
  2. step 1
  3. False
  4. give your reason
  5. True
  6. what you would like
  7. an “I” statement
  8. step 3
  9. True
  10. a blaming “you” line
  11. say how you feel
  12. name your feeling
  13. name your feeling
  14. say when it happens
  15. name your feeling
  16. they don’t attack
  17. name the action
  18. an “I” statement
  19. say how you feel
  20. a blaming “you” line
  21. say when it happens
  22. your own feelings
  23. name the action
  24. say why it matters
  25. an “I” statement
  26. name your feeling
  27. False
  28. step 3
  29. say how you feel
  30. step 2
  31. True
  32. False
  33. upset
  34. say why it matters
  35. True
  36. an “I” statement
  37. “I feel left out.”
  38. False
  39. False
  40. name the action

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