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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 208 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Too late.” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  2. 2.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  3. 3.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  4. 4.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a list of faults (b) a loud sigh (c) a threat (d) what you would like
  5. 5.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) sleepy (c) upset (d) happy
  6. 6.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  7. 7.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the weather (b) old fights (c) your own feelings (d) the other’s faults
  8. 8.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  9. 9.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  10. 10.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  11. 11.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  13. 13.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they hide feelings (b) they don’t attack (c) they win the fight (d) they sound louder
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  15. 15.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You ignore me!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “You never listen!”
  16. 16.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  18. 18.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  21. 21.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  22. 22.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  23. 23.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  25. 25.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  26. 26.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say how you feel? (a) give your reason (b) say how you feel
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or give your reason? (a) name your feeling (b) give your reason
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  31. 31.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  32. 32.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  33. 33.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  34. 34.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  35. 35.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  36. 36.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name your feeling? (a) ask for a change (b) name your feeling
  38. 38.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  39. 39.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like

Answer key

  1. “Thanks for listening.”
  2. an “I” statement
  3. a blaming “you” line
  4. what you would like
  5. upset
  6. step 2
  7. your own feelings
  8. True
  9. False
  10. an “I” statement
  11. step 4
  12. a blaming “you” line
  13. they don’t attack
  14. give your reason
  15. “I feel left out.”
  16. True
  17. an “I” statement
  18. True
  19. an “I” statement
  20. say why it matters
  21. step 3
  22. False
  23. True
  24. a blaming “you” line
  25. step 1
  26. True
  27. an “I” statement
  28. say how you feel
  29. name your feeling
  30. a blaming “you” line
  31. False
  32. True
  33. step 4
  34. an “I” statement
  35. False
  36. a blaming “you” line
  37. name your feeling
  38. a blaming “you” line
  39. False
  40. give your reason

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