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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 217 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) upset (c) sleepy (d) hungry
  2. 2.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  3. 3.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  5. 5.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name your feeling? (a) ask for a change (b) name your feeling
  6. 6.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  8. 8.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  9. 9.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  10. 10.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say how you feel? (a) give your reason (b) say how you feel
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or name the action? (a) name your feeling (b) name the action
  15. 15.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  16. 16.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  18. 18.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “I feel left out.” (d) “You ignore me!”
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  20. 20.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  21. 21.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a loud sigh (b) a threat (c) a list of faults (d) what you would like
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say what you would like? (a) say how you feel (b) say what you would like
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or name your feeling? (a) name the action (b) name your feeling
  24. 24.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  26. 26.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  29. 29.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  32. 32.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Whatever.” (b) “You should be sorry!” (c) “Too late.” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  33. 33.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  34. 34.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or give your reason? (a) name your feeling (b) give your reason
  36. 36.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  38. 38.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  39. 39.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say how you feel? (a) name the action (b) say how you feel

Answer key

  1. upset
  2. True
  3. say when it happens
  4. an “I” statement
  5. name your feeling
  6. step 1
  7. an “I” statement
  8. False
  9. False
  10. step 3
  11. an “I” statement
  12. an “I” statement
  13. say how you feel
  14. name your feeling
  15. True
  16. step 2
  17. an “I” statement
  18. “I feel left out.”
  19. step 1
  20. False
  21. what you would like
  22. say how you feel
  23. name your feeling
  24. False
  25. say why it matters
  26. step 3
  27. a blaming “you” line
  28. say why it matters
  29. True
  30. a blaming “you” line
  31. a blaming “you” line
  32. “Thanks for listening.”
  33. False
  34. a blaming “you” line
  35. name your feeling
  36. True
  37. say when it happens
  38. False
  39. True
  40. say how you feel

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