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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 226 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  2. 2.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  3. 3.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) what you would like (b) a threat (c) a list of faults (d) a loud sigh
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  5. 5.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) upset (b) hungry (c) happy (d) sleepy
  6. 6.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  7. 7.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  9. 9.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  10. 10.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  11. 11.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  12. 12.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Whatever.” (b) “You should be sorry!” (c) “Too late.” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  14. 14.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  15. 15.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  18. 18.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the weather (b) your own feelings (c) the other’s faults (d) old fights
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  20. 20.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  21. 21.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  23. 23.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name your feeling? (a) give your reason (b) name your feeling
  25. 25.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  26. 26.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or ask for a change? (a) name your feeling (b) ask for a change
  28. 28.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  29. 29.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  32. 32.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say when it happens? (a) name your feeling (b) say when it happens
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or name your feeling? (a) name the action (b) name your feeling
  35. 35.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  37. 37.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  38. 38.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  39. 39.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they don’t attack (b) they sound louder (c) they hide feelings (d) they win the fight
  40. 40.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True

Answer key

  1. step 1
  2. an “I” statement
  3. what you would like
  4. say why it matters
  5. upset
  6. step 3
  7. True
  8. an “I” statement
  9. step 4
  10. a blaming “you” line
  11. step 2
  12. “Thanks for listening.”
  13. an “I” statement
  14. True
  15. False
  16. an “I” statement
  17. an “I” statement
  18. your own feelings
  19. step 1
  20. step 3
  21. False
  22. give your reason
  23. a blaming “you” line
  24. name your feeling
  25. False
  26. a blaming “you” line
  27. name your feeling
  28. True
  29. False
  30. an “I” statement
  31. give your reason
  32. True
  33. name your feeling
  34. name your feeling
  35. True
  36. give your reason
  37. False
  38. a blaming “you” line
  39. they don’t attack
  40. True

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