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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 236 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  2. 2.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  3. 3.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  4. 4.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  5. 5.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or ask for a change? (a) say when it happens (b) ask for a change
  7. 7.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  8. 8.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  10. 10.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  11. 11.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) what you would like (c) a loud sigh (d) a list of faults
  12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or give your reason? (a) name the action (b) give your reason
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  14. 14.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the other’s faults (b) the weather (c) your own feelings (d) old fights
  15. 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  16. 16.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Too late.” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “You should be sorry!” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  17. 17.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say how you feel? (a) give your reason (b) say how you feel
  22. 22.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  23. 23.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they hide feelings (b) they sound louder (c) they win the fight (d) they don’t attack
  24. 24.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  25. 25.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) hungry (c) sleepy (d) upset
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or name the action? (a) say how you feel (b) name the action
  28. 28.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  29. 29.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You ignore me!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “You never listen!”
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  31. 31.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  32. 32.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say how you feel? (a) ask for a change (b) say how you feel
  34. 34.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  35. 35.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  37. 37.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  38. 38.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  40. 40.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False

Answer key

  1. an “I” statement
  2. step 1
  3. a blaming “you” line
  4. False
  5. give your reason
  6. say when it happens
  7. step 2
  8. False
  9. a blaming “you” line
  10. step 4
  11. what you would like
  12. name the action
  13. an “I” statement
  14. your own feelings
  15. a blaming “you” line
  16. “Thanks for listening.”
  17. step 3
  18. a blaming “you” line
  19. step 4
  20. an “I” statement
  21. say how you feel
  22. an “I” statement
  23. they don’t attack
  24. True
  25. upset
  26. give your reason
  27. say how you feel
  28. True
  29. “I feel left out.”
  30. an “I” statement
  31. False
  32. step 3
  33. say how you feel
  34. step 1
  35. True
  36. say why it matters
  37. True
  38. False
  39. give your reason
  40. False

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