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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 247 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  2. 2.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  3. 3.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  7. 7.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or name your feeling? (a) say when it happens (b) name your feeling
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  9. 9.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they hide feelings (b) they sound louder (c) they don’t attack (d) they win the fight
  10. 10.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  12. 12.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) sleepy (b) hungry (c) upset (d) happy
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  14. 14.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  15. 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  16. 16.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  17. 17.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  18. 18.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name your feeling? (a) give your reason (b) name your feeling
  19. 19.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) your own feelings (b) the other’s faults (c) old fights (d) the weather
  20. 20.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  21. 21.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or name your feeling? (a) name the action (b) name your feeling
  23. 23.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  24. 24.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Thanks for listening.” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “You should be sorry!” (d) “Too late.”
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  26. 26.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  27. 27.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  30. 30.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  31. 31.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or ask for a change? (a) say when it happens (b) ask for a change
  33. 33.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say how you feel? (a) say what you would like (b) say how you feel
  35. 35.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  36. 36.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  37. 37.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  39. 39.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say why it matters? (a) name the action (b) say why it matters

Answer key

  1. False
  2. step 3
  3. a blaming “you” line
  4. an “I” statement
  5. an “I” statement
  6. step 4
  7. name your feeling
  8. an “I” statement
  9. they don’t attack
  10. step 3
  11. a blaming “you” line
  12. upset
  13. say why it matters
  14. step 4
  15. an “I” statement
  16. step 2
  17. False
  18. name your feeling
  19. your own feelings
  20. True
  21. True
  22. name your feeling
  23. False
  24. “Thanks for listening.”
  25. say when it happens
  26. True
  27. step 1
  28. say why it matters
  29. give your reason
  30. False
  31. True
  32. say when it happens
  33. an “I” statement
  34. say how you feel
  35. True
  36. an “I” statement
  37. False
  38. say why it matters
  39. True
  40. name the action

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