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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 251 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “I feel left out.” (b) “You ignore me!” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “You never listen!”
  2. 2.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  3. 3.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or name the action? (a) name your feeling (b) name the action
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  8. 8.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) your own feelings (b) the weather (c) old fights (d) the other’s faults
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name your feeling? (a) say why it matters (b) name your feeling
  10. 10.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  11. 11.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  14. 14.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) what you would like (b) a list of faults (c) a loud sigh (d) a threat
  15. 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  16. 16.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  17. 17.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  18. 18.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or name your feeling? (a) name the action (b) name your feeling
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  20. 20.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  21. 21.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  22. 22.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  23. 23.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  24. 24.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Thanks for listening.” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “Too late.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say how you feel? (a) name the action (b) say how you feel
  26. 26.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  27. 27.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  28. 28.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  29. 29.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  30. 30.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  32. 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say why it matters? (a) name your feeling (b) say why it matters
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  35. 35.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) upset (b) hungry (c) happy (d) sleepy
  36. 36.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  37. 37.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or ask for a change? (a) say when it happens (b) ask for a change

Answer key

  1. “I feel left out.”
  2. True
  3. False
  4. a blaming “you” line
  5. a blaming “you” line
  6. name your feeling
  7. an “I” statement
  8. your own feelings
  9. name your feeling
  10. False
  11. False
  12. a blaming “you” line
  13. an “I” statement
  14. what you would like
  15. a blaming “you” line
  16. step 1
  17. False
  18. name your feeling
  19. step 4
  20. False
  21. True
  22. an “I” statement
  23. step 2
  24. “Thanks for listening.”
  25. say how you feel
  26. a blaming “you” line
  27. step 1
  28. step 2
  29. True
  30. True
  31. an “I” statement
  32. a blaming “you” line
  33. name your feeling
  34. name the action
  35. upset
  36. False
  37. True
  38. say why it matters
  39. say when it happens
  40. say when it happens

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