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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 255 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  2. 2.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  3. 3.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You ignore me!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You never listen!” (d) “You’re so rude!”
  4. 4.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  5. 5.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  6. 6.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  7. 7.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a loud sigh (b) a list of faults (c) a threat (d) what you would like
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters
  10. 10.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  11. 11.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Thanks for listening.” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “Too late.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say what you would like? (a) name the action (b) say what you would like
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  15. 15.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  21. 21.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  22. 22.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or name your feeling? (a) name the action (b) name your feeling
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  25. 25.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  26. 26.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  27. 27.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or give your reason? (a) name the action (b) give your reason
  29. 29.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  32. 32.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  33. 33.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the other’s faults (b) the weather (c) your own feelings (d) old fights
  34. 34.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  35. 35.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  36. 36.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  37. 37.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  38. 38.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or ask for a change? (a) name the action (b) ask for a change
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or ask for a change? (a) say when it happens (b) ask for a change

Answer key

  1. True
  2. step 3
  3. “I feel left out.”
  4. step 1
  5. False
  6. a blaming “you” line
  7. what you would like
  8. a blaming “you” line
  9. say how you feel
  10. a blaming “you” line
  11. “Thanks for listening.”
  12. name the action
  13. an “I” statement
  14. say when it happens
  15. True
  16. an “I” statement
  17. an “I” statement
  18. an “I” statement
  19. step 2
  20. a blaming “you” line
  21. True
  22. step 1
  23. name your feeling
  24. an “I” statement
  25. True
  26. True
  27. True
  28. name the action
  29. step 4
  30. give your reason
  31. a blaming “you” line
  32. step 3
  33. your own feelings
  34. a blaming “you” line
  35. False
  36. True
  37. False
  38. step 2
  39. name the action
  40. say when it happens

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