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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 257 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  2. 2.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  3. 3.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  7. 7.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they hide feelings (b) they sound louder (c) they win the fight (d) they don’t attack
  8. 8.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) sleepy (c) happy (d) upset
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
  10. 10.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  13. 13.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the weather (b) old fights (c) the other’s faults (d) your own feelings
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name your feeling? (a) ask for a change (b) name your feeling
  15. 15.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  16. 16.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  18. 18.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  20. 20.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  22. 22.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  23. 23.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  25. 25.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  26. 26.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a loud sigh (b) a threat (c) a list of faults (d) what you would like
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  28. 28.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  29. 29.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  30. 30.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “I feel left out.” (d) “You ignore me!”
  31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say how you feel? (a) ask for a change (b) say how you feel
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  33. 33.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  34. 34.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  36. 36.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  37. 37.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  38. 38.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  39. 39.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  40. 40.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4

Answer key

  1. step 4
  2. False
  3. an “I” statement
  4. a blaming “you” line
  5. a blaming “you” line
  6. a blaming “you” line
  7. they don’t attack
  8. upset
  9. say when it happens
  10. True
  11. a blaming “you” line
  12. give your reason
  13. your own feelings
  14. name your feeling
  15. False
  16. say when it happens
  17. say how you feel
  18. False
  19. step 1
  20. step 2
  21. give your reason
  22. step 3
  23. step 2
  24. say when it happens
  25. True
  26. what you would like
  27. an “I” statement
  28. True
  29. True
  30. “I feel left out.”
  31. say how you feel
  32. say when it happens
  33. True
  34. step 4
  35. a blaming “you” line
  36. an “I” statement
  37. True
  38. a blaming “you” line
  39. False
  40. step 3

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