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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 259 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name your feeling? (a) say why it matters (b) name your feeling
  3. 3.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  4. 4.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  5. 5.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “Too late.”
  6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say what you would like? (a) name your feeling (b) say what you would like
  7. 7.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the weather (b) old fights (c) your own feelings (d) the other’s faults
  8. 8.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  10. 10.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  12. 12.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they don’t attack (c) they hide feelings (d) they win the fight
  13. 13.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  14. 14.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  15. 15.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say how you feel? (a) name the action (b) say how you feel
  16. 16.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “You’re so rude!” (c) “I feel left out.” (d) “You ignore me!”
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  19. 19.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or ask for a change? (a) name the action (b) ask for a change
  20. 20.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a list of faults (b) what you would like (c) a threat (d) a loud sigh
  21. 21.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or name the action? (a) say how you feel (b) name the action
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name your feeling? (a) say what you would like (b) name your feeling
  24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
  25. 25.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  26. 26.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  28. 28.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  29. 29.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  32. 32.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  33. 33.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  34. 34.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  36. 36.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name your feeling? (a) ask for a change (b) name your feeling
  38. 38.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  39. 39.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  40. 40.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False

Answer key

  1. step 4
  2. name your feeling
  3. an “I” statement
  4. step 1
  5. “Thanks for listening.”
  6. name your feeling
  7. your own feelings
  8. True
  9. give your reason
  10. False
  11. a blaming “you” line
  12. they don’t attack
  13. True
  14. step 2
  15. say how you feel
  16. “I feel left out.”
  17. an “I” statement
  18. an “I” statement
  19. name the action
  20. what you would like
  21. True
  22. say how you feel
  23. name your feeling
  24. say when it happens
  25. False
  26. an “I” statement
  27. a blaming “you” line
  28. step 3
  29. a blaming “you” line
  30. a blaming “you” line
  31. give your reason
  32. True
  33. step 2
  34. False
  35. say how you feel
  36. True
  37. name your feeling
  38. a blaming “you” line
  39. False
  40. True

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