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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 276 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  2. 2.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  3. 3.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) sleepy (b) hungry (c) happy (d) upset
  4. 4.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the other’s faults (b) the weather (c) old fights (d) your own feelings
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You ignore me!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “You never listen!”
  7. 7.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) a loud sigh (c) a list of faults (d) what you would like
  8. 8.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
  12. 12.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  13. 13.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  14. 14.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “Too late.” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  15. 15.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  16. 16.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say when it happens? (a) say how you feel (b) say when it happens
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or ask for a change? (a) say how you feel (b) ask for a change
  18. 18.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  21. 21.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  22. 22.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  23. 23.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  26. 26.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  27. 27.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say why it matters? (a) name the action (b) say why it matters
  29. 29.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they don’t attack (b) they sound louder (c) they hide feelings (d) they win the fight
  30. 30.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  32. 32.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  33. 33.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  34. 34.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  35. 35.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  36. 36.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say what you would like? (a) name your feeling (b) say what you would like
  38. 38.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens

Answer key

  1. True
  2. step 2
  3. upset
  4. your own feelings
  5. an “I” statement
  6. “I feel left out.”
  7. what you would like
  8. give your reason
  9. a blaming “you” line
  10. give your reason
  11. say how you feel
  12. True
  13. step 2
  14. “Thanks for listening.”
  15. True
  16. say how you feel
  17. say how you feel
  18. True
  19. step 3
  20. a blaming “you” line
  21. a blaming “you” line
  22. False
  23. an “I” statement
  24. a blaming “you” line
  25. an “I” statement
  26. step 4
  27. step 1
  28. name the action
  29. they don’t attack
  30. step 1
  31. an “I” statement
  32. False
  33. an “I” statement
  34. a blaming “you” line
  35. False
  36. step 3
  37. name your feeling
  38. False
  39. a blaming “you” line
  40. say when it happens

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