I Statements Worksheet for Kids
Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.
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- 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 2.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
- 3.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
- 4.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) sleepy (c) happy (d) upset
- 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
- 6.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 7.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
- 8.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 9.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 10.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
- 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
- 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
- 13.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 14.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) what you would like (b) a threat (c) a loud sigh (d) a list of faults
- 15.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 16.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
- 17.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
- 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
- 19.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You never listen!” (d) “You ignore me!”
- 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
- 21.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
- 22.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
- 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name your feeling? (a) give your reason (b) name your feeling
- 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
- 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
- 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or give your reason? (a) say how you feel (b) give your reason
- 27.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
- 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
- 29.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
- 30.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 31.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
- 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
- 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
- 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
- 36.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
- 37.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
- 38.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they win the fight (b) they hide feelings (c) they sound louder (d) they don’t attack
- 39.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
- 40.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) old fights (b) your own feelings (c) the other’s faults (d) the weather
Answer key
- step 1
- True
- False
- upset
- a blaming “you” line
- step 2
- False
- step 4
- step 3
- True
- say why it matters
- an “I” statement
- step 4
- what you would like
- step 2
- True
- False
- an “I” statement
- “I feel left out.”
- an “I” statement
- True
- a blaming “you” line
- name your feeling
- say why it matters
- say when it happens
- say how you feel
- True
- a blaming “you” line
- False
- step 1
- step 3
- a blaming “you” line
- say when it happens
- say when it happens
- say why it matters
- True
- an “I” statement
- they don’t attack
- True
- your own feelings
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