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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 282 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  2. 2.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  3. 3.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  4. 4.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) sleepy (c) happy (d) upset
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  7. 7.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  8. 8.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  9. 9.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  10. 10.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  13. 13.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  14. 14.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) what you would like (b) a threat (c) a loud sigh (d) a list of faults
  15. 15.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  16. 16.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  17. 17.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  19. 19.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You never listen!” (d) “You ignore me!”
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  21. 21.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  22. 22.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name your feeling? (a) give your reason (b) name your feeling
  24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or give your reason? (a) say how you feel (b) give your reason
  27. 27.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  29. 29.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  30. 30.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  31. 31.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  32. 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  36. 36.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  37. 37.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  38. 38.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they win the fight (b) they hide feelings (c) they sound louder (d) they don’t attack
  39. 39.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  40. 40.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) old fights (b) your own feelings (c) the other’s faults (d) the weather

Answer key

  1. step 1
  2. True
  3. False
  4. upset
  5. a blaming “you” line
  6. step 2
  7. False
  8. step 4
  9. step 3
  10. True
  11. say why it matters
  12. an “I” statement
  13. step 4
  14. what you would like
  15. step 2
  16. True
  17. False
  18. an “I” statement
  19. “I feel left out.”
  20. an “I” statement
  21. True
  22. a blaming “you” line
  23. name your feeling
  24. say why it matters
  25. say when it happens
  26. say how you feel
  27. True
  28. a blaming “you” line
  29. False
  30. step 1
  31. step 3
  32. a blaming “you” line
  33. say when it happens
  34. say when it happens
  35. say why it matters
  36. True
  37. an “I” statement
  38. they don’t attack
  39. True
  40. your own feelings

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