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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 286 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  2. 2.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  3. 3.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  4. 4.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  7. 7.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  8. 8.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  10. 10.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) sleepy (b) hungry (c) happy (d) upset
  11. 11.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  12. 12.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  13. 13.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  14. 14.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  15. 15.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  16. 16.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  17. 17.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  19. 19.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  20. 20.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) your own feelings (b) the weather (c) the other’s faults (d) old fights
  21. 21.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or name the action? (a) name your feeling (b) name the action
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say when it happens? (a) say how you feel (b) say when it happens
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  25. 25.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  26. 26.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they win the fight (c) they hide feelings (d) they don’t attack
  27. 27.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) what you would like (c) a loud sigh (d) a list of faults
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say when it happens? (a) name your feeling (b) say when it happens
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say how you feel? (a) ask for a change (b) say how you feel
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  31. 31.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  32. 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  34. 34.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  35. 35.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “I feel left out.” (b) “You ignore me!” (c) “You never listen!” (d) “You’re so rude!”
  36. 36.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name the action? (a) say why it matters (b) name the action
  38. 38.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  39. 39.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters

Answer key

  1. say why it matters
  2. True
  3. a blaming “you” line
  4. True
  5. a blaming “you” line
  6. say why it matters
  7. say why it matters
  8. step 4
  9. an “I” statement
  10. upset
  11. True
  12. step 4
  13. step 3
  14. step 2
  15. give your reason
  16. False
  17. step 3
  18. an “I” statement
  19. True
  20. your own feelings
  21. a blaming “you” line
  22. name your feeling
  23. say how you feel
  24. an “I” statement
  25. step 1
  26. they don’t attack
  27. what you would like
  28. name your feeling
  29. say how you feel
  30. a blaming “you” line
  31. False
  32. an “I” statement
  33. give your reason
  34. False
  35. “I feel left out.”
  36. True
  37. name the action
  38. an “I” statement
  39. True
  40. say why it matters

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