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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 292 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or give your reason? (a) name the action (b) give your reason
  2. 2.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Too late.” (b) “You should be sorry!” (c) “Whatever.” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  3. 3.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say what you would like? (a) name the action (b) say what you would like
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  10. 10.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  12. 12.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  13. 13.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  14. 14.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  15. 15.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  16. 16.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say why it matters? (a) name the action (b) say why it matters
  18. 18.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  19. 19.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or ask for a change? (a) name the action (b) ask for a change
  21. 21.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  22. 22.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a list of faults (b) what you would like (c) a loud sigh (d) a threat
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  24. 24.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  25. 25.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  26. 26.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name the action? (a) ask for a change (b) name the action
  28. 28.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the weather (b) your own feelings (c) old fights (d) the other’s faults
  29. 29.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) upset (c) sleepy (d) happy
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  31. 31.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  32. 32.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  33. 33.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  34. 34.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  35. 35.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  36. 36.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  37. 37.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  38. 38.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  40. 40.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement

Answer key

  1. name the action
  2. “Thanks for listening.”
  3. False
  4. name the action
  5. an “I” statement
  6. False
  7. an “I” statement
  8. a blaming “you” line
  9. an “I” statement
  10. False
  11. an “I” statement
  12. True
  13. False
  14. step 2
  15. step 3
  16. True
  17. name the action
  18. step 1
  19. False
  20. name the action
  21. True
  22. what you would like
  23. say when it happens
  24. False
  25. step 4
  26. step 4
  27. name the action
  28. your own feelings
  29. upset
  30. an “I” statement
  31. True
  32. True
  33. True
  34. True
  35. False
  36. False
  37. an “I” statement
  38. False
  39. a blaming “you” line
  40. a blaming “you” line

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