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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 296 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  2. 2.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  3. 3.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they don’t attack (b) they sound louder (c) they hide feelings (d) they win the fight
  4. 4.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  7. 7.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) sleepy (b) hungry (c) happy (d) upset
  8. 8.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  10. 10.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  12. 12.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the other’s faults (b) old fights (c) your own feelings (d) the weather
  13. 13.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) what you would like (c) a list of faults (d) a loud sigh
  14. 14.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  15. 15.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  16. 16.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name your feeling? (a) ask for a change (b) name your feeling
  18. 18.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “I feel left out.” (b) “You’re so rude!” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “You never listen!”
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  20. 20.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say why it matters? (a) name the action (b) say why it matters
  22. 22.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  23. 23.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  24. 24.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  25. 25.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  29. 29.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  31. 31.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  32. 32.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  33. 33.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  34. 34.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Too late.” (b) “You should be sorry!” (c) “Whatever.” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  36. 36.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say when it happens? (a) say how you feel (b) say when it happens
  38. 38.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say why it matters? (a) say when it happens (b) say why it matters
  40. 40.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False

Answer key

  1. say when it happens
  2. False
  3. they don’t attack
  4. step 1
  5. a blaming “you” line
  6. say when it happens
  7. upset
  8. True
  9. say when it happens
  10. step 3
  11. say how you feel
  12. your own feelings
  13. what you would like
  14. False
  15. give your reason
  16. True
  17. name your feeling
  18. “I feel left out.”
  19. a blaming “you” line
  20. step 4
  21. name the action
  22. a blaming “you” line
  23. False
  24. step 1
  25. False
  26. name the action
  27. an “I” statement
  28. say why it matters
  29. a blaming “you” line
  30. a blaming “you” line
  31. step 4
  32. step 3
  33. False
  34. “Thanks for listening.”
  35. an “I” statement
  36. False
  37. say how you feel
  38. True
  39. say when it happens
  40. False

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