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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 298 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  2. 2.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  3. 3.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  6. 6.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  7. 7.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  8. 8.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name your feeling? (a) give your reason (b) name your feeling
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  10. 10.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  11. 11.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  12. 12.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say when it happens? (a) name your feeling (b) say when it happens
  14. 14.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  15. 15.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  16. 16.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) sleepy (b) happy (c) hungry (d) upset
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  18. 18.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters
  21. 21.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  22. 22.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  23. 23.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they don’t attack (c) they hide feelings (d) they win the fight
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  25. 25.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  26. 26.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) a list of faults (c) what you would like (d) a loud sigh
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name your feeling? (a) say why it matters (b) name your feeling
  28. 28.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name the action? (a) say why it matters (b) name the action
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say why it matters? (a) say when it happens (b) say why it matters
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say what you would like? (a) name your feeling (b) say what you would like
  33. 33.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  34. 34.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  36. 36.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “I feel left out.” (b) “You’re so rude!” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “You never listen!”
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  38. 38.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
  40. 40.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False

Answer key

  1. step 4
  2. False
  3. a blaming “you” line
  4. an “I” statement
  5. an “I” statement
  6. step 2
  7. False
  8. name your feeling
  9. an “I” statement
  10. step 2
  11. step 3
  12. step 4
  13. name your feeling
  14. a blaming “you” line
  15. step 1
  16. upset
  17. an “I” statement
  18. step 1
  19. a blaming “you” line
  20. say how you feel
  21. an “I” statement
  22. False
  23. they don’t attack
  24. a blaming “you” line
  25. False
  26. what you would like
  27. name your feeling
  28. False
  29. name the action
  30. say when it happens
  31. an “I” statement
  32. name your feeling
  33. False
  34. step 3
  35. an “I” statement
  36. “I feel left out.”
  37. say why it matters
  38. True
  39. say how you feel
  40. True

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