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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 307 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or give your reason? (a) name the action (b) give your reason
  2. 2.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  3. 3.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  4. 4.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) old fights (b) the weather (c) your own feelings (d) the other’s faults
  5. 5.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  6. 6.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  8. 8.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action
  10. 10.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  12. 12.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say how you feel? (a) give your reason (b) say how you feel
  15. 15.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they win the fight (b) they sound louder (c) they hide feelings (d) they don’t attack
  16. 16.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  17. 17.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  18. 18.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “You’re so rude!” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “I feel left out.”
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  20. 20.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  21. 21.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  22. 22.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  23. 23.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) sleepy (c) upset (d) happy
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  27. 27.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  28. 28.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  29. 29.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
  31. 31.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  32. 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  34. 34.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  35. 35.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  36. 36.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  37. 37.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say what you would like? (a) say how you feel (b) say what you would like

Answer key

  1. name the action
  2. a blaming “you” line
  3. True
  4. your own feelings
  5. True
  6. True
  7. an “I” statement
  8. False
  9. name the action
  10. an “I” statement
  11. a blaming “you” line
  12. False
  13. say why it matters
  14. say how you feel
  15. they don’t attack
  16. step 2
  17. True
  18. “I feel left out.”
  19. step 4
  20. step 3
  21. True
  22. step 4
  23. upset
  24. a blaming “you” line
  25. a blaming “you” line
  26. say when it happens
  27. step 1
  28. True
  29. step 3
  30. say how you feel
  31. False
  32. an “I” statement
  33. say when it happens
  34. an “I” statement
  35. True
  36. step 1
  37. a blaming “you” line
  38. say why it matters
  39. give your reason
  40. say how you feel

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