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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 310 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  2. 2.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) your own feelings (b) old fights (c) the weather (d) the other’s faults
  3. 3.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) a loud sigh (c) what you would like (d) a list of faults
  7. 7.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
  8. 8.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say why it matters? (a) say when it happens (b) say why it matters
  9. 9.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  10. 10.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they don’t attack (b) they hide feelings (c) they sound louder (d) they win the fight
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or ask for a change? (a) name the action (b) ask for a change
  12. 12.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) upset (c) hungry (d) sleepy
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  14. 14.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  15. 15.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  16. 16.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  18. 18.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “I feel left out.” (b) “You ignore me!” (c) “You never listen!” (d) “You’re so rude!”
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  21. 21.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  22. 22.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  23. 23.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  24. 24.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  26. 26.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  27. 27.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  28. 28.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  29. 29.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Too late.” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  30. 30.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  31. 31.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  32. 32.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  33. 33.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  36. 36.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  37. 37.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  38. 38.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or give your reason? (a) name the action (b) give your reason
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say what you would like? (a) name the action (b) say what you would like

Answer key

  1. a blaming “you” line
  2. your own feelings
  3. True
  4. give your reason
  5. an “I” statement
  6. what you would like
  7. say when it happens
  8. say when it happens
  9. False
  10. they don’t attack
  11. name the action
  12. upset
  13. an “I” statement
  14. a blaming “you” line
  15. give your reason
  16. False
  17. a blaming “you” line
  18. “I feel left out.”
  19. a blaming “you” line
  20. say why it matters
  21. False
  22. True
  23. an “I” statement
  24. False
  25. a blaming “you” line
  26. False
  27. True
  28. step 1
  29. “Thanks for listening.”
  30. False
  31. step 2
  32. step 2
  33. an “I” statement
  34. give your reason
  35. a blaming “you” line
  36. False
  37. step 4
  38. True
  39. name the action
  40. name the action

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