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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 316 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  3. 3.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  6. 6.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  7. 7.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a loud sigh (b) a threat (c) what you would like (d) a list of faults
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  10. 10.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  12. 12.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the weather (b) old fights (c) the other’s faults (d) your own feelings
  13. 13.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  14. 14.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “You ignore me!”
  15. 15.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  16. 16.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or ask for a change? (a) name the action (b) ask for a change
  17. 17.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  18. 18.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  20. 20.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or give your reason? (a) name the action (b) give your reason
  22. 22.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say when it happens? (a) name your feeling (b) say when it happens
  24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  26. 26.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they win the fight (b) they hide feelings (c) they don’t attack (d) they sound louder
  27. 27.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  28. 28.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  29. 29.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or name the action? (a) say how you feel (b) name the action
  31. 31.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or name your feeling? (a) say when it happens (b) name your feeling
  33. 33.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  34. 34.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  36. 36.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  38. 38.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  39. 39.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  40. 40.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True

Answer key

  1. True
  2. name the action
  3. an “I” statement
  4. an “I” statement
  5. a blaming “you” line
  6. step 4
  7. what you would like
  8. a blaming “you” line
  9. say why it matters
  10. True
  11. say when it happens
  12. your own feelings
  13. False
  14. “I feel left out.”
  15. False
  16. name the action
  17. False
  18. True
  19. step 1
  20. True
  21. name the action
  22. step 3
  23. name your feeling
  24. say why it matters
  25. say why it matters
  26. they don’t attack
  27. step 1
  28. step 2
  29. True
  30. say how you feel
  31. step 2
  32. name your feeling
  33. an “I” statement
  34. False
  35. say when it happens
  36. an “I” statement
  37. say why it matters
  38. True
  39. True
  40. False

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