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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 328 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  2. 2.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  3. 3.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the other’s faults (b) the weather (c) old fights (d) your own feelings
  4. 4.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  5. 5.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  6. 6.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  7. 7.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  8. 8.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) upset (c) sleepy (d) happy
  9. 9.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Whatever.” (b) “Too late.” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say how you feel? (a) ask for a change (b) say how you feel
  13. 13.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “You’re so rude!”
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say what you would like? (a) name your feeling (b) say what you would like
  15. 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name your feeling? (a) say what you would like (b) name your feeling
  18. 18.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say why it matters? (a) say when it happens (b) say why it matters
  21. 21.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or ask for a change? (a) say when it happens (b) ask for a change
  23. 23.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  26. 26.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  27. 27.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  29. 29.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  31. 31.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  32. 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  33. 33.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  34. 34.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  35. 35.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or name your feeling? (a) say when it happens (b) name your feeling
  37. 37.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  39. 39.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  40. 40.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True

Answer key

  1. step 3
  2. step 2
  3. your own feelings
  4. False
  5. False
  6. step 2
  7. False
  8. upset
  9. “Thanks for listening.”
  10. give your reason
  11. an “I” statement
  12. say how you feel
  13. “I feel left out.”
  14. name your feeling
  15. an “I” statement
  16. a blaming “you” line
  17. name your feeling
  18. say when it happens
  19. step 4
  20. say when it happens
  21. False
  22. say when it happens
  23. True
  24. say when it happens
  25. say why it matters
  26. an “I” statement
  27. step 1
  28. an “I” statement
  29. True
  30. say when it happens
  31. False
  32. a blaming “you” line
  33. True
  34. step 4
  35. False
  36. name your feeling
  37. a blaming “you” line
  38. give your reason
  39. True
  40. True

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