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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 331 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say what you would like? (a) name your feeling (b) say what you would like
  3. 3.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or name your feeling? (a) name the action (b) name your feeling
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  5. 5.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) your own feelings (b) the weather (c) the other’s faults (d) old fights
  6. 6.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  7. 7.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  10. 10.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  11. 11.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they win the fight (b) they sound louder (c) they hide feelings (d) they don’t attack
  12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say how you feel? (a) say what you would like (b) say how you feel
  13. 13.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  14. 14.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  15. 15.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  16. 16.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  18. 18.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  19. 19.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  21. 21.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  22. 22.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “I feel left out.” (d) “You ignore me!”
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  24. 24.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a loud sigh (b) a threat (c) a list of faults (d) what you would like
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  26. 26.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  27. 27.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  29. 29.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  30. 30.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say how you feel? (a) name the action (b) say how you feel
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  34. 34.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
  36. 36.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  37. 37.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  38. 38.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “Too late.” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  40. 40.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2

Answer key

  1. a blaming “you” line
  2. name your feeling
  3. name your feeling
  4. a blaming “you” line
  5. your own feelings
  6. False
  7. step 1
  8. an “I” statement
  9. an “I” statement
  10. step 4
  11. they don’t attack
  12. say how you feel
  13. step 3
  14. an “I” statement
  15. True
  16. give your reason
  17. an “I” statement
  18. False
  19. False
  20. say why it matters
  21. step 4
  22. “I feel left out.”
  23. give your reason
  24. what you would like
  25. a blaming “you” line
  26. True
  27. False
  28. an “I” statement
  29. True
  30. True
  31. an “I” statement
  32. say how you feel
  33. say when it happens
  34. True
  35. say when it happens
  36. False
  37. a blaming “you” line
  38. “Thanks for listening.”
  39. an “I” statement
  40. step 1

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