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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 334 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  2. 2.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  3. 3.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  5. 5.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) sleepy (b) happy (c) upset (d) hungry
  6. 6.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they win the fight (b) they don’t attack (c) they hide feelings (d) they sound louder
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  8. 8.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or give your reason? (a) say how you feel (b) give your reason
  12. 12.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “Too late.”
  13. 13.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) your own feelings (b) old fights (c) the weather (d) the other’s faults
  14. 14.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  15. 15.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name your feeling? (a) say why it matters (b) name your feeling
  16. 16.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “You never listen!”
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
  18. 18.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  20. 20.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  21. 21.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  22. 22.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  23. 23.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  24. 24.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  25. 25.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  26. 26.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  27. 27.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or ask for a change? (a) say when it happens (b) ask for a change
  29. 29.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or name your feeling? (a) name the action (b) name your feeling
  31. 31.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or ask for a change? (a) name your feeling (b) ask for a change
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say when it happens? (a) name your feeling (b) say when it happens
  36. 36.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
  38. 38.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  39. 39.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change

Answer key

  1. True
  2. a blaming “you” line
  3. step 2
  4. an “I” statement
  5. upset
  6. they don’t attack
  7. an “I” statement
  8. step 1
  9. a blaming “you” line
  10. give your reason
  11. say how you feel
  12. “Thanks for listening.”
  13. your own feelings
  14. step 4
  15. name your feeling
  16. “I feel left out.”
  17. say when it happens
  18. False
  19. an “I” statement
  20. step 1
  21. a blaming “you” line
  22. False
  23. step 3
  24. True
  25. step 4
  26. an “I” statement
  27. step 3
  28. say when it happens
  29. a blaming “you” line
  30. name your feeling
  31. False
  32. say why it matters
  33. name your feeling
  34. give your reason
  35. name your feeling
  36. False
  37. say when it happens
  38. False
  39. True
  40. say why it matters

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