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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 342 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  2. 2.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  3. 3.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) sleepy (b) happy (c) upset (d) hungry
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say how you feel? (a) give your reason (b) say how you feel
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  7. 7.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  8. 8.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Whatever.” (b) “Too late.” (c) “You should be sorry!” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  10. 10.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  11. 11.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the weather (b) the other’s faults (c) your own feelings (d) old fights
  12. 12.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  14. 14.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  15. 15.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You ignore me!” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “I feel left out.”
  16. 16.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  18. 18.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they win the fight (c) they hide feelings (d) they don’t attack
  19. 19.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  20. 20.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say why it matters? (a) name the action (b) say why it matters
  22. 22.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or name the action? (a) say how you feel (b) name the action
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
  26. 26.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a list of faults (b) a threat (c) what you would like (d) a loud sigh
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or name your feeling? (a) say when it happens (b) name your feeling
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  29. 29.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or ask for a change? (a) say how you feel (b) ask for a change
  31. 31.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  32. 32.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  33. 33.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  34. 34.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  36. 36.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  37. 37.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  38. 38.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  40. 40.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3

Answer key

  1. True
  2. step 2
  3. upset
  4. say how you feel
  5. an “I” statement
  6. step 3
  7. False
  8. “Thanks for listening.”
  9. give your reason
  10. False
  11. your own feelings
  12. step 4
  13. an “I” statement
  14. a blaming “you” line
  15. “I feel left out.”
  16. say how you feel
  17. an “I” statement
  18. they don’t attack
  19. give your reason
  20. step 1
  21. name the action
  22. step 3
  23. say how you feel
  24. a blaming “you” line
  25. say when it happens
  26. what you would like
  27. name your feeling
  28. give your reason
  29. True
  30. say how you feel
  31. False
  32. False
  33. step 1
  34. True
  35. give your reason
  36. an “I” statement
  37. step 2
  38. a blaming “you” line
  39. an “I” statement
  40. step 4

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