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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 344 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  2. 2.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  3. 3.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) hungry (c) upset (d) sleepy
  4. 4.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Too late.” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  6. 6.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  7. 7.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  8. 8.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name your feeling? (a) say what you would like (b) name your feeling
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or name your feeling? (a) name the action (b) name your feeling
  11. 11.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  12. 12.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “I feel left out.” (d) “You ignore me!”
  13. 13.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name the action? (a) say why it matters (b) name the action
  15. 15.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  16. 16.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  18. 18.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say when it happens? (a) say what you would like (b) say when it happens
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  22. 22.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  23. 23.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  24. 24.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) what you would like (b) a list of faults (c) a loud sigh (d) a threat
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action
  26. 26.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  29. 29.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  30. 30.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  31. 31.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  32. 32.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) old fights (b) the weather (c) the other’s faults (d) your own feelings
  33. 33.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  34. 34.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  36. 36.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say what you would like? (a) name your feeling (b) say what you would like
  38. 38.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say when it happens? (a) name your feeling (b) say when it happens
  40. 40.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement

Answer key

  1. step 1
  2. True
  3. upset
  4. “Thanks for listening.”
  5. a blaming “you” line
  6. step 4
  7. False
  8. say why it matters
  9. name your feeling
  10. name your feeling
  11. step 3
  12. “I feel left out.”
  13. True
  14. name the action
  15. True
  16. step 4
  17. a blaming “you” line
  18. False
  19. step 2
  20. say when it happens
  21. say when it happens
  22. True
  23. False
  24. what you would like
  25. name the action
  26. an “I” statement
  27. an “I” statement
  28. a blaming “you” line
  29. an “I” statement
  30. step 1
  31. step 3
  32. your own feelings
  33. False
  34. False
  35. an “I” statement
  36. a blaming “you” line
  37. name your feeling
  38. True
  39. name your feeling
  40. a blaming “you” line

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