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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 358 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  3. 3.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name the action? (a) say why it matters (b) name the action
  5. 5.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name your feeling? (a) say what you would like (b) name your feeling
  6. 6.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “You ignore me!” (c) “I feel left out.” (d) “You never listen!”
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  8. 8.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  9. 9.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  10. 10.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  11. 11.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  12. 12.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the weather (b) old fights (c) your own feelings (d) the other’s faults
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  14. 14.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  15. 15.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  16. 16.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) sleepy (c) upset (d) hungry
  17. 17.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  18. 18.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  21. 21.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  22. 22.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they hide feelings (b) they don’t attack (c) they win the fight (d) they sound louder
  23. 23.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  25. 25.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  26. 26.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or ask for a change? (a) name your feeling (b) ask for a change
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  32. 32.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  33. 33.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  34. 34.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  35. 35.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  36. 36.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  38. 38.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  40. 40.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True

Answer key

  1. a blaming “you” line
  2. give your reason
  3. an “I” statement
  4. name the action
  5. name your feeling
  6. “I feel left out.”
  7. an “I” statement
  8. say why it matters
  9. step 3
  10. False
  11. True
  12. your own feelings
  13. an “I” statement
  14. True
  15. step 1
  16. upset
  17. True
  18. give your reason
  19. an “I” statement
  20. say why it matters
  21. step 2
  22. they don’t attack
  23. False
  24. a blaming “you” line
  25. step 4
  26. step 2
  27. name the action
  28. say when it happens
  29. name your feeling
  30. name the action
  31. an “I” statement
  32. True
  33. an “I” statement
  34. step 3
  35. True
  36. a blaming “you” line
  37. give your reason
  38. False
  39. a blaming “you” line
  40. True

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