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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 376 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  2. 2.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  3. 3.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  4. 4.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  5. 5.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “I feel left out.” (d) “You ignore me!”
  6. 6.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) old fights (b) the weather (c) the other’s faults (d) your own feelings
  7. 7.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  8. 8.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  9. 9.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  10. 10.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they hide feelings (b) they don’t attack (c) they win the fight (d) they sound louder
  11. 11.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  12. 12.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  14. 14.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  15. 15.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or ask for a change? (a) name your feeling (b) ask for a change
  16. 16.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say why it matters? (a) say when it happens (b) say why it matters
  17. 17.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Thanks for listening.” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “Too late.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  19. 19.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  21. 21.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say how you feel? (a) say what you would like (b) say how you feel
  23. 23.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name your feeling? (a) say why it matters (b) name your feeling
  25. 25.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a loud sigh (b) a list of faults (c) what you would like (d) a threat
  26. 26.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say why it matters? (a) name the action (b) say why it matters
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  29. 29.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  30. 30.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  32. 32.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  34. 34.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters
  38. 38.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  39. 39.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  40. 40.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line

Answer key

  1. step 4
  2. a blaming “you” line
  3. step 1
  4. step 1
  5. “I feel left out.”
  6. your own feelings
  7. False
  8. False
  9. True
  10. they don’t attack
  11. step 2
  12. False
  13. an “I” statement
  14. a blaming “you” line
  15. name your feeling
  16. say when it happens
  17. “Thanks for listening.”
  18. an “I” statement
  19. give your reason
  20. an “I” statement
  21. True
  22. say how you feel
  23. True
  24. name your feeling
  25. what you would like
  26. False
  27. name the action
  28. a blaming “you” line
  29. a blaming “you” line
  30. False
  31. a blaming “you” line
  32. True
  33. say why it matters
  34. an “I” statement
  35. say when it happens
  36. name the action
  37. say how you feel
  38. an “I” statement
  39. False
  40. an “I” statement

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