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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 385 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  2. 2.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  3. 3.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  4. 4.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  5. 5.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  6. 6.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  7. 7.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  8. 8.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say how you feel? (a) say what you would like (b) say how you feel
  9. 9.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  10. 10.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Thanks for listening.” (b) “Too late.” (c) “Whatever.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  11. 11.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) happy (c) sleepy (d) upset
  12. 12.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “You ignore me!” (c) “You never listen!” (d) “I feel left out.”
  13. 13.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a list of faults (b) a threat (c) a loud sigh (d) what you would like
  14. 14.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  15. 15.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  16. 16.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  18. 18.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  19. 19.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  20. 20.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  21. 21.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  22. 22.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  23. 23.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  24. 24.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  26. 26.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they don’t attack (c) they win the fight (d) they hide feelings
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  28. 28.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  29. 29.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  32. 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  33. 33.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  37. 37.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say what you would like? (a) say how you feel (b) say what you would like
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or name your feeling? (a) say when it happens (b) name your feeling

Answer key

  1. False
  2. a blaming “you” line
  3. give your reason
  4. step 3
  5. True
  6. an “I” statement
  7. False
  8. say how you feel
  9. True
  10. “Thanks for listening.”
  11. upset
  12. “I feel left out.”
  13. what you would like
  14. step 4
  15. False
  16. step 1
  17. say why it matters
  18. True
  19. True
  20. False
  21. step 3
  22. False
  23. a blaming “you” line
  24. step 2
  25. a blaming “you” line
  26. they don’t attack
  27. a blaming “you” line
  28. False
  29. step 4
  30. a blaming “you” line
  31. an “I” statement
  32. a blaming “you” line
  33. True
  34. say how you feel
  35. give your reason
  36. say why it matters
  37. False
  38. say how you feel
  39. give your reason
  40. name your feeling

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