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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 389 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  2. 2.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  3. 3.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  5. 5.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  6. 6.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  8. 8.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  9. 9.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  10. 10.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  12. 12.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  15. 15.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  16. 16.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) sleepy (c) upset (d) happy
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  18. 18.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  19. 19.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You ignore me!” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “I feel left out.” (d) “You’re so rude!”
  20. 20.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action
  22. 22.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name your feeling? (a) ask for a change (b) name your feeling
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  25. 25.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  26. 26.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say when it happens? (a) say how you feel (b) say when it happens
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  29. 29.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  30. 30.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters
  32. 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  33. 33.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  34. 34.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Thanks for listening.” (b) “Too late.” (c) “Whatever.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  35. 35.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  36. 36.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) what you would like (b) a list of faults (c) a threat (d) a loud sigh
  37. 37.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  40. 40.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True

Answer key

  1. False
  2. True
  3. step 3
  4. an “I” statement
  5. True
  6. False
  7. an “I” statement
  8. True
  9. step 1
  10. a blaming “you” line
  11. a blaming “you” line
  12. step 2
  13. give your reason
  14. say why it matters
  15. True
  16. upset
  17. a blaming “you” line
  18. step 3
  19. “I feel left out.”
  20. False
  21. name the action
  22. an “I” statement
  23. name your feeling
  24. an “I” statement
  25. True
  26. False
  27. say how you feel
  28. an “I” statement
  29. True
  30. False
  31. say how you feel
  32. an “I” statement
  33. False
  34. “Thanks for listening.”
  35. True
  36. what you would like
  37. False
  38. give your reason
  39. a blaming “you” line
  40. True

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