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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 395 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  2. 2.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  3. 3.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  4. 4.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) your own feelings (b) old fights (c) the weather (d) the other’s faults
  5. 5.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  6. 6.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  8. 8.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  9. 9.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say what you would like? (a) name the action (b) say what you would like
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  12. 12.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they win the fight (b) they don’t attack (c) they sound louder (d) they hide feelings
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name your feeling? (a) say why it matters (b) name your feeling
  14. 14.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  15. 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  16. 16.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  17. 17.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) what you would like (c) a list of faults (d) a loud sigh
  18. 18.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  19. 19.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say how you feel? (a) ask for a change (b) say how you feel
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name your feeling? (a) say what you would like (b) name your feeling
  21. 21.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  22. 22.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  23. 23.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) sleepy (c) upset (d) happy
  24. 24.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  25. 25.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  28. 28.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
  30. 30.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name the action? (a) ask for a change (b) name the action
  32. 32.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  33. 33.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say how you feel? (a) say what you would like (b) say how you feel
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  36. 36.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
  38. 38.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason

Answer key

  1. say why it matters
  2. step 4
  3. True
  4. your own feelings
  5. False
  6. an “I” statement
  7. a blaming “you” line
  8. step 1
  9. step 1
  10. name the action
  11. a blaming “you” line
  12. they don’t attack
  13. name your feeling
  14. step 4
  15. a blaming “you” line
  16. True
  17. what you would like
  18. say why it matters
  19. say how you feel
  20. name your feeling
  21. True
  22. a blaming “you” line
  23. upset
  24. False
  25. True
  26. say when it happens
  27. a blaming “you” line
  28. False
  29. say when it happens
  30. True
  31. name the action
  32. False
  33. False
  34. say how you feel
  35. an “I” statement
  36. step 3
  37. say how you feel
  38. step 2
  39. a blaming “you” line
  40. give your reason

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