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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 431 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  2. 2.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Whatever.” (b) “You should be sorry!” (c) “Too late.” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  3. 3.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  4. 4.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  5. 5.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say what you would like? (a) name your feeling (b) say what you would like
  6. 6.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  7. 7.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters
  8. 8.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name your feeling? (a) say why it matters (b) name your feeling
  10. 10.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  12. 12.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) sleepy (c) upset (d) hungry
  13. 13.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say when it happens? (a) say how you feel (b) say when it happens
  15. 15.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or name the action? (a) say how you feel (b) name the action
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  18. 18.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  20. 20.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  21. 21.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  22. 22.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  24. 24.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they don’t attack (b) they win the fight (c) they hide feelings (d) they sound louder
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or name the action? (a) name your feeling (b) name the action
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say why it matters? (a) name the action (b) say why it matters
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say how you feel? (a) ask for a change (b) say how you feel
  29. 29.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the weather (b) the other’s faults (c) old fights (d) your own feelings
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or name your feeling? (a) say when it happens (b) name your feeling
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  33. 33.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  34. 34.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  35. 35.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  36. 36.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  37. 37.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “I feel left out.” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “You ignore me!”
  38. 38.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  40. 40.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True

Answer key

  1. step 4
  2. “Thanks for listening.”
  3. True
  4. False
  5. name your feeling
  6. an “I” statement
  7. say how you feel
  8. True
  9. name your feeling
  10. step 3
  11. a blaming “you” line
  12. upset
  13. True
  14. say how you feel
  15. say how you feel
  16. an “I” statement
  17. a blaming “you” line
  18. say when it happens
  19. step 2
  20. False
  21. False
  22. a blaming “you” line
  23. give your reason
  24. they don’t attack
  25. name your feeling
  26. give your reason
  27. name the action
  28. say how you feel
  29. your own feelings
  30. a blaming “you” line
  31. name your feeling
  32. name the action
  33. an “I” statement
  34. True
  35. True
  36. an “I” statement
  37. “I feel left out.”
  38. False
  39. an “I” statement
  40. False

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