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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 441 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  2. 2.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  3. 3.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  4. 4.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  5. 5.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  6. 6.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  8. 8.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  9. 9.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  10. 10.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  11. 11.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or name your feeling? (a) say when it happens (b) name your feeling
  15. 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  17. 17.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  18. 18.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  21. 21.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) sleepy (c) happy (d) upset
  22. 22.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  23. 23.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  25. 25.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  26. 26.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  27. 27.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  28. 28.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name the action? (a) say why it matters (b) name the action
  30. 30.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  31. 31.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  32. 32.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  33. 33.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  34. 34.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  35. 35.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they win the fight (c) they don’t attack (d) they hide feelings
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  37. 37.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say when it happens? (a) name your feeling (b) say when it happens
  39. 39.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the other’s faults (b) old fights (c) the weather (d) your own feelings
  40. 40.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False

Answer key

  1. give your reason
  2. step 3
  3. an “I” statement
  4. step 2
  5. False
  6. a blaming “you” line
  7. an “I” statement
  8. step 3
  9. step 2
  10. True
  11. True
  12. an “I” statement
  13. an “I” statement
  14. name your feeling
  15. a blaming “you” line
  16. a blaming “you” line
  17. True
  18. True
  19. step 1
  20. a blaming “you” line
  21. upset
  22. step 1
  23. False
  24. say why it matters
  25. False
  26. step 4
  27. step 4
  28. False
  29. name the action
  30. False
  31. False
  32. True
  33. a blaming “you” line
  34. a blaming “you” line
  35. they don’t attack
  36. say why it matters
  37. an “I” statement
  38. name your feeling
  39. your own feelings
  40. True

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