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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 444 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or ask for a change? (a) name the action (b) ask for a change
  3. 3.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) sleepy (b) hungry (c) upset (d) happy
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say why it matters? (a) name your feeling (b) say why it matters
  5. 5.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say why it matters? (a) name the action (b) say why it matters
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  8. 8.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the other’s faults (b) your own feelings (c) old fights (d) the weather
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say why it matters? (a) say when it happens (b) say why it matters
  10. 10.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Whatever.” (b) “You should be sorry!” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “Too late.”
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  12. 12.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or ask for a change? (a) name your feeling (b) ask for a change
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or ask for a change? (a) say how you feel (b) ask for a change
  15. 15.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  16. 16.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  17. 17.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  22. 22.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they don’t attack (b) they hide feelings (c) they win the fight (d) they sound louder
  23. 23.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say what you would like? (a) say how you feel (b) say what you would like
  25. 25.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  26. 26.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  27. 27.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  28. 28.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  29. 29.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “You’re so rude!”
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  31. 31.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or give your reason? (a) say how you feel (b) give your reason
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or give your reason? (a) name the action (b) give your reason
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say when it happens? (a) name your feeling (b) say when it happens
  37. 37.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  38. 38.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a list of faults (b) what you would like (c) a loud sigh (d) a threat
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  40. 40.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True

Answer key

  1. step 2
  2. name the action
  3. upset
  4. name your feeling
  5. False
  6. name the action
  7. a blaming “you” line
  8. your own feelings
  9. say when it happens
  10. “Thanks for listening.”
  11. a blaming “you” line
  12. step 4
  13. name your feeling
  14. say how you feel
  15. False
  16. True
  17. False
  18. an “I” statement
  19. an “I” statement
  20. an “I” statement
  21. name the action
  22. they don’t attack
  23. a blaming “you” line
  24. say how you feel
  25. step 1
  26. step 1
  27. True
  28. step 2
  29. “I feel left out.”
  30. an “I” statement
  31. True
  32. say how you feel
  33. give your reason
  34. name the action
  35. an “I” statement
  36. name your feeling
  37. step 4
  38. what you would like
  39. an “I” statement
  40. True

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