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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 449 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  2. 2.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a loud sigh (b) a threat (c) a list of faults (d) what you would like
  3. 3.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  5. 5.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  6. 6.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  7. 7.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  9. 9.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they win the fight (b) they sound louder (c) they hide feelings (d) they don’t attack
  10. 10.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or name your feeling? (a) say when it happens (b) name your feeling
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  14. 14.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  15. 15.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) hungry (c) upset (d) sleepy
  16. 16.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  18. 18.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  21. 21.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  22. 22.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You ignore me!” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “I feel left out.”
  23. 23.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  24. 24.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  26. 26.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  29. 29.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  30. 30.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Thanks for listening.” (b) “Too late.” (c) “You should be sorry!” (d) “Whatever.”
  31. 31.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say why it matters? (a) name the action (b) say why it matters
  33. 33.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  34. 34.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  35. 35.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  36. 36.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  37. 37.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  38. 38.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason

Answer key

  1. True
  2. what you would like
  3. an “I” statement
  4. an “I” statement
  5. say how you feel
  6. step 1
  7. step 3
  8. a blaming “you” line
  9. they don’t attack
  10. False
  11. an “I” statement
  12. name your feeling
  13. an “I” statement
  14. False
  15. upset
  16. True
  17. say why it matters
  18. True
  19. step 4
  20. a blaming “you” line
  21. True
  22. “I feel left out.”
  23. step 2
  24. False
  25. an “I” statement
  26. True
  27. a blaming “you” line
  28. a blaming “you” line
  29. an “I” statement
  30. “Thanks for listening.”
  31. False
  32. name the action
  33. step 4
  34. an “I” statement
  35. True
  36. True
  37. False
  38. True
  39. a blaming “you” line
  40. give your reason

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