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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 454 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  2. 2.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  3. 3.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or give your reason? (a) name the action (b) give your reason
  5. 5.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  6. 6.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) upset (b) happy (c) hungry (d) sleepy
  7. 7.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they don’t attack (b) they sound louder (c) they win the fight (d) they hide feelings
  8. 8.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or name your feeling? (a) say when it happens (b) name your feeling
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  10. 10.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  11. 11.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) your own feelings (b) the other’s faults (c) the weather (d) old fights
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  13. 13.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  14. 14.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  15. 15.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  16. 16.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  17. 17.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  18. 18.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  19. 19.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name the action? (a) say why it matters (b) name the action
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say when it happens? (a) say what you would like (b) say when it happens
  21. 21.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  23. 23.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  26. 26.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  29. 29.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  30. 30.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You ignore me!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You never listen!” (d) “You’re so rude!”
  31. 31.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  32. 32.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  33. 33.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say what you would like? (a) say how you feel (b) say what you would like
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  36. 36.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  37. 37.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  38. 38.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Too late.” (c) “Whatever.” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  39. 39.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  40. 40.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line

Answer key

  1. step 2
  2. an “I” statement
  3. step 3
  4. name the action
  5. step 4
  6. upset
  7. they don’t attack
  8. name your feeling
  9. a blaming “you” line
  10. False
  11. your own feelings
  12. an “I” statement
  13. step 4
  14. an “I” statement
  15. step 3
  16. say why it matters
  17. False
  18. False
  19. name the action
  20. say when it happens
  21. True
  22. say why it matters
  23. False
  24. an “I” statement
  25. an “I” statement
  26. True
  27. name the action
  28. a blaming “you” line
  29. False
  30. “I feel left out.”
  31. step 2
  32. False
  33. True
  34. say how you feel
  35. say why it matters
  36. step 1
  37. step 1
  38. “Thanks for listening.”
  39. False
  40. an “I” statement

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