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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 47 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
  3. 3.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  4. 4.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  5. 5.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or name your feeling? (a) name the action (b) name your feeling
  6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  7. 7.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name the action? (a) say why it matters (b) name the action
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name your feeling? (a) say what you would like (b) name your feeling
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name your feeling? (a) give your reason (b) name your feeling
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  13. 13.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  14. 14.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “You’re so rude!” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “I feel left out.”
  15. 15.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or ask for a change? (a) name the action (b) ask for a change
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  18. 18.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say how you feel? (a) say what you would like (b) say how you feel
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  20. 20.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  21. 21.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  22. 22.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  26. 26.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  28. 28.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  29. 29.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) your own feelings (b) the weather (c) the other’s faults (d) old fights
  30. 30.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) upset (b) happy (c) sleepy (d) hungry
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  32. 32.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a list of faults (b) a threat (c) a loud sigh (d) what you would like
  33. 33.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  34. 34.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  35. 35.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  36. 36.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  37. 37.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  38. 38.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  39. 39.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  40. 40.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True

Answer key

  1. an “I” statement
  2. say when it happens
  3. False
  4. False
  5. name your feeling
  6. give your reason
  7. say why it matters
  8. an “I” statement
  9. name the action
  10. name your feeling
  11. name your feeling
  12. an “I” statement
  13. True
  14. “I feel left out.”
  15. name the action
  16. a blaming “you” line
  17. a blaming “you” line
  18. say how you feel
  19. step 2
  20. step 1
  21. a blaming “you” line
  22. True
  23. name the action
  24. an “I” statement
  25. give your reason
  26. True
  27. an “I” statement
  28. True
  29. your own feelings
  30. upset
  31. an “I” statement
  32. what you would like
  33. True
  34. False
  35. True
  36. step 4
  37. step 3
  38. step 3
  39. False
  40. False

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