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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 472 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  2. 2.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  3. 3.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) sleepy (c) hungry (d) upset
  4. 4.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  5. 5.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You never listen!” (d) “You ignore me!”
  6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  8. 8.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters
  10. 10.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  12. 12.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Thanks for listening.” (c) “Too late.” (d) “Whatever.”
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say why it matters? (a) name your feeling (b) say why it matters
  14. 14.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  15. 15.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  16. 16.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  17. 17.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  19. 19.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or give your reason? (a) name your feeling (b) give your reason
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  22. 22.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  23. 23.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  24. 24.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or ask for a change? (a) name your feeling (b) ask for a change
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  28. 28.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) what you would like (b) a list of faults (c) a threat (d) a loud sigh
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
  31. 31.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  32. 32.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the other’s faults (b) your own feelings (c) old fights (d) the weather
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name your feeling? (a) say why it matters (b) name your feeling
  34. 34.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  36. 36.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  38. 38.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they hide feelings (c) they win the fight (d) they don’t attack
  39. 39.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like

Answer key

  1. True
  2. a blaming “you” line
  3. upset
  4. False
  5. “I feel left out.”
  6. say why it matters
  7. a blaming “you” line
  8. False
  9. say how you feel
  10. step 1
  11. a blaming “you” line
  12. “Thanks for listening.”
  13. name your feeling
  14. step 4
  15. False
  16. step 4
  17. False
  18. an “I” statement
  19. name your feeling
  20. an “I” statement
  21. say why it matters
  22. False
  23. True
  24. step 1
  25. an “I” statement
  26. name your feeling
  27. name the action
  28. what you would like
  29. say when it happens
  30. say when it happens
  31. False
  32. your own feelings
  33. name your feeling
  34. True
  35. a blaming “you” line
  36. True
  37. say why it matters
  38. they don’t attack
  39. step 3
  40. say why it matters

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