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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 477 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name the action? (a) say why it matters (b) name the action
  2. 2.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  3. 3.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  4. 4.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  5. 5.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  6. 6.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  7. 7.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  8. 8.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters
  10. 10.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  14. 14.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  15. 15.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  17. 17.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the other’s faults (b) the weather (c) your own feelings (d) old fights
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  19. 19.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  20. 20.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  21. 21.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  22. 22.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  23. 23.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  24. 24.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or give your reason? (a) name the action (b) give your reason
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say why it matters? (a) name your feeling (b) say why it matters
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  32. 32.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Whatever.” (b) “You should be sorry!” (c) “Too late.” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name your feeling? (a) ask for a change (b) name your feeling
  34. 34.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  35. 35.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  36. 36.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  37. 37.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) sleepy (b) hungry (c) upset (d) happy
  38. 38.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they win the fight (b) they don’t attack (c) they sound louder (d) they hide feelings
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action

Answer key

  1. name the action
  2. False
  3. True
  4. step 1
  5. step 3
  6. True
  7. True
  8. give your reason
  9. say how you feel
  10. step 3
  11. give your reason
  12. say how you feel
  13. give your reason
  14. step 4
  15. False
  16. an “I” statement
  17. your own feelings
  18. a blaming “you” line
  19. True
  20. step 2
  21. True
  22. False
  23. a blaming “you” line
  24. True
  25. a blaming “you” line
  26. say how you feel
  27. an “I” statement
  28. name the action
  29. name your feeling
  30. a blaming “you” line
  31. a blaming “you” line
  32. “Thanks for listening.”
  33. name your feeling
  34. an “I” statement
  35. False
  36. step 1
  37. upset
  38. they don’t attack
  39. an “I” statement
  40. name the action

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