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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 479 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  2. 2.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  3. 3.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) upset (b) hungry (c) happy (d) sleepy
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name the action? (a) ask for a change (b) name the action
  5. 5.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they hide feelings (b) they don’t attack (c) they sound louder (d) they win the fight
  6. 6.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  7. 7.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  8. 8.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  9. 9.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  10. 10.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  11. 11.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  12. 12.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  14. 14.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  15. 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  16. 16.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  20. 20.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  21. 21.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  22. 22.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  24. 24.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  25. 25.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  26. 26.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) your own feelings (b) the weather (c) old fights (d) the other’s faults
  27. 27.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  28. 28.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  29. 29.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or name your feeling? (a) name the action (b) name your feeling
  31. 31.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  32. 32.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  33. 33.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “You’re so rude!” (c) “I feel left out.” (d) “You ignore me!”
  34. 34.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  35. 35.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name the action? (a) say why it matters (b) name the action
  38. 38.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  39. 39.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  40. 40.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Thanks for listening.” (b) “Too late.” (c) “Whatever.” (d) “You should be sorry!”

Answer key

  1. step 2
  2. True
  3. upset
  4. name the action
  5. they don’t attack
  6. an “I” statement
  7. True
  8. step 1
  9. True
  10. an “I” statement
  11. True
  12. False
  13. an “I” statement
  14. False
  15. a blaming “you” line
  16. True
  17. say why it matters
  18. a blaming “you” line
  19. step 4
  20. False
  21. step 3
  22. an “I” statement
  23. say why it matters
  24. False
  25. step 4
  26. your own feelings
  27. step 2
  28. False
  29. a blaming “you” line
  30. name your feeling
  31. False
  32. False
  33. “I feel left out.”
  34. an “I” statement
  35. False
  36. name the action
  37. name the action
  38. a blaming “you” line
  39. True
  40. “Thanks for listening.”

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