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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 487 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  2. 2.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  3. 3.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Too late.” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  4. 4.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  8. 8.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  9. 9.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) what you would like (b) a loud sigh (c) a list of faults (d) a threat
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  11. 11.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) sleepy (c) upset (d) happy
  12. 12.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they hide feelings (b) they don’t attack (c) they win the fight (d) they sound louder
  13. 13.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  14. 14.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  15. 15.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  16. 16.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) old fights (b) your own feelings (c) the weather (d) the other’s faults
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  18. 18.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  19. 19.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say when it happens? (a) say what you would like (b) say when it happens
  22. 22.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “I feel left out.”
  23. 23.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or name your feeling? (a) say when it happens (b) name your feeling
  25. 25.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  26. 26.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or name your feeling? (a) name the action (b) name your feeling
  30. 30.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  32. 32.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  33. 33.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  35. 35.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  36. 36.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say why it matters? (a) name your feeling (b) say why it matters
  38. 38.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  40. 40.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1

Answer key

  1. step 3
  2. True
  3. “Thanks for listening.”
  4. True
  5. an “I” statement
  6. name the action
  7. a blaming “you” line
  8. step 2
  9. what you would like
  10. give your reason
  11. upset
  12. they don’t attack
  13. True
  14. an “I” statement
  15. True
  16. your own feelings
  17. say when it happens
  18. give your reason
  19. True
  20. a blaming “you” line
  21. say when it happens
  22. “I feel left out.”
  23. an “I” statement
  24. name your feeling
  25. True
  26. step 1
  27. a blaming “you” line
  28. an “I” statement
  29. name your feeling
  30. True
  31. say why it matters
  32. False
  33. an “I” statement
  34. give your reason
  35. step 1
  36. True
  37. name your feeling
  38. step 4
  39. a blaming “you” line
  40. step 4

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