← “I” statements and sharing feelings lesson New set →

I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 489 · 40 questions
TalentJR

Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

NameDateTime takenScore ___ / 40
  1. 1.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  2. 2.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  3. 3.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  5. 5.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  6. 6.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  10. 10.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “You ignore me!” (c) “You never listen!” (d) “I feel left out.”
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  12. 12.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  14. 14.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) a list of faults (c) what you would like (d) a loud sigh
  15. 15.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) upset (b) sleepy (c) hungry (d) happy
  16. 16.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  17. 17.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  18. 18.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  19. 19.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say what you would like? (a) name the action (b) say what you would like
  21. 21.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  22. 22.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  23. 23.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Whatever.” (b) “Too late.” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  24. 24.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  26. 26.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  27. 27.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  29. 29.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  32. 32.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the weather (b) old fights (c) your own feelings (d) the other’s faults
  33. 33.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  34. 34.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they win the fight (b) they sound louder (c) they hide feelings (d) they don’t attack
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or give your reason? (a) name the action (b) give your reason
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  37. 37.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  38. 38.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  39. 39.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  40. 40.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1

Answer key

  1. True
  2. an “I” statement
  3. False
  4. a blaming “you” line
  5. step 1
  6. False
  7. an “I” statement
  8. a blaming “you” line
  9. a blaming “you” line
  10. “I feel left out.”
  11. a blaming “you” line
  12. False
  13. give your reason
  14. what you would like
  15. upset
  16. step 2
  17. False
  18. False
  19. say why it matters
  20. name the action
  21. False
  22. step 1
  23. “Thanks for listening.”
  24. True
  25. say why it matters
  26. an “I” statement
  27. step 4
  28. an “I” statement
  29. False
  30. say when it happens
  31. give your reason
  32. your own feelings
  33. a blaming “you” line
  34. they don’t attack
  35. name the action
  36. say why it matters
  37. a blaming “you” line
  38. step 3
  39. False
  40. step 4

Free communication skills lessons, practice and worksheets at talentjr.in/communication-skills-for-students